2009-10-20
Top 5 Ways to Keep Your Love Life Hot
Written by: Noga Sachs
1.Give in. So you hate Fiona Apple and she hates football. Instead of being argument topics, these differences are opportunities to show you care. A hell of a lot sweeter than showing up on her doorstep with a couple of carnations is a pair of tickets to see her favorite love songs.
2. Appreciate. It’s not enough to limit telling him how cute he looks and what a sweetheart he’s being to right after he buys you dinner. We all need frequent reminders of what is great to keep those flattery bubbles floating and popping in our dreamy, romance filled heads. Especially if you’re bringing up “an issue” it’s important to reel in the incentive for dealing with that issue to keep him nipping at the bait.
3. Be Creative. This doesn’t just apply to between the satin sheets, although it’s certainly not a bad thing there either. Piquing impulses is one of the main reasons couples enjoy being together. If you’ve got an unconventional idea, don’t think twice or look back, trust that he’ll want to do it with you and he’ll love the spontaneity!
4. Appeal to the senses. Looking great isn’t the only way to keep your mate excited to see you, but certainly do dedicate yourself to some mirror time. Appealing scents, especially subtle fragrances, even as minor as a enjoyable antiperspirant, can really solidify pleasant reactions when with your beau. Snag a quick squeeze, caress, or kiss behind the ear to tantalize her sense of touch. Pop that Altoid or smooth on your favorite lip gloss to keep things delicious. Turning up tunes that you both like and speaking in pleasant tones fills the ears with the mood for chemistry.
5. Decide. The number one question behind all relationship problems is, would you like to continue to be upset? If the answer is yes, you don’t want to be a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you want to be a victim. If the answer is no, then take a look at some things you can do to move past pissed and irked into entranced and romanced.
Noga Sachs M.S. Health & Wellness Science and Motivation
Health and Life Coach
www.nogacoach.com
@nogasachs
Photo Credit: MetroSexual LA
2. Appreciate. It’s not enough to limit telling him how cute he looks and what a sweetheart he’s being to right after he buys you dinner. We all need frequent reminders of what is great to keep those flattery bubbles floating and popping in our dreamy, romance filled heads. Especially if you’re bringing up “an issue” it’s important to reel in the incentive for dealing with that issue to keep him nipping at the bait.
3. Be Creative. This doesn’t just apply to between the satin sheets, although it’s certainly not a bad thing there either. Piquing impulses is one of the main reasons couples enjoy being together. If you’ve got an unconventional idea, don’t think twice or look back, trust that he’ll want to do it with you and he’ll love the spontaneity!
4. Appeal to the senses. Looking great isn’t the only way to keep your mate excited to see you, but certainly do dedicate yourself to some mirror time. Appealing scents, especially subtle fragrances, even as minor as a enjoyable antiperspirant, can really solidify pleasant reactions when with your beau. Snag a quick squeeze, caress, or kiss behind the ear to tantalize her sense of touch. Pop that Altoid or smooth on your favorite lip gloss to keep things delicious. Turning up tunes that you both like and speaking in pleasant tones fills the ears with the mood for chemistry.
5. Decide. The number one question behind all relationship problems is, would you like to continue to be upset? If the answer is yes, you don’t want to be a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you want to be a victim. If the answer is no, then take a look at some things you can do to move past pissed and irked into entranced and romanced.
Noga Sachs M.S. Health & Wellness Science and Motivation
Health and Life Coach
www.nogacoach.com
@nogasachs
Comments
Another great piece! I think many people underestimate how much fun a creative adventure with your s.o. - like a hiking trip or even a new restaurant - can be.
That's Amore! Bellisimo mi bella!
Great article! I'd also love to read an article about the Top 5 Ways to MAKE Your Love Life Hot. Next week???
what about cheating
Two romantic thumbs up!
Very insightful, I really like the way you put things! Opens the mind to a new perception of the way things can be and ought to be!!! Thank you
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